The point to remembering how to be in this experience of being is not only I feel, to embrace both our pleasure and our suffering as equal parts of what is in any experience of duality, creation by comparison (they are), but what we also need remember is that pleasure and suffering are matters of perception and not absolutes of good or evil, right or wrong and by placing labels such as these on each individuals perception of being we only create great divisions between us, demonizing each other, rather than experiencing in joy what unites us all, our infinite commonality to be LOVE and LOVE; the sun does not hate the moon for hearkening the dark of night, nor does the moon the sun for bringing light to the day.
“Love is made up of three unconditional properties in equal measure:
Remove any one of the three and the triangle falls apart.
Which, by the way, is something highly inadvisable. Think about it — do you really want to live in a world of only two dimensions?
So, for the love of a triangle, please keep love whole.” ~ Vera Nazarian, The Perpetual Calendar of Inspiration